“In everything, give thanks.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18 It’s always been one of my favorite stories, and I can’t think of a better time to share it than at Thanksgiving. The only character in this story is a man named Vance. He’s one of my favorite Dry Creek friends. He told me …
Author Archives: Curt Iles
John Wooden’s Socks
John Wooden’s Socks “It isn’t what you do, but how you do it.” -John Wooden I was a college senior the year I met John Wooden in 1979. I was preparing to embark on my journey as a high school basketball coach. I traveled to Monroe, Louisiana to hear John Wooden speak at …
Shake Like a Man
Shake Like a Man As we’re slowly but surely passing up the restrictions of the Pandemic, it’s time to be reminded about the manly art of handshaking. A fist bump is a poor excuse for a firm handshake. “When you give a man a handshake, make sure it’s firm because it shows you’re a …
Running in the Lobby
Today would be the birthday of my precious great aunt, Letha Stockwell Reynolds. In honor and memory of her life, we’re posting a reader favorite story, “Running Through The Lobby.” It’s a post about love and Aunt Letha and her husband of seventy-seven years, Gordon, are the stars. Learn more about Deep Roots …
A Dead End Road
Dead End Mr. Frank Miller stormed into my office. Maybe stormed is too strong a word, but he was evidently highly upset. When a man over eighty storms into a room, and he is your mentor, you quickly want to find out what is wrong. I didn’t have to ask …
Drive Your Stakes Deep
Drive Your Stakes Deep We set up our tent on a bluff overlooking a pristine Maine lake. My hiking partner, Mac, and I were on a two-week hike on the Appalachian Trail (AT). We set up camp on an August evening with clear skies and a soft cool breeze. Due to traveling light, we …
Choose Your Rut Carefully
Choosing Your Rut Choose your rut carefully: you’ll be in it for the next thirty miles. -Sign on Alaskan wilderness road It’s true. I learned in African bush driving that the rut you chose is very difficult to get out of. During the rainy season, dirt roads became paths of deep mud. Whatever …
Salty Language
Do you have “Salty Language?” (a 3-minute story) Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person. Colossians 4:6 ESV Salt has many uses: it seasons, preserves, melts ice, heals, and serves other purposes in our lives. Jesus, in his Sermon on the …
If you like people, people will like you.
A Few Thoughts on Charisma “Charisma is the ability to do the hard work of fitting in with those around you.” –Seth Godin Charisma is a word that is often misunderstood. I recently ran across Seth Godin’s excellent definition of what it is. It is a person’s ability to fit in comfortably with …
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L.T.W.B.T.U.F.I. Leave this world . . .
Leaving this World Better . . . “L.T.W.B.T.U.F.I.” Leave this world better than you found it! It’s a good motto to live by. Whatever we touch. Wherever we go, we ought to leave it better. I’ve always loved camping and hiking. Part of the joy is in setting up camp along a bubbling mountainside creek …
Less is More
Less is More “Too Many Pockets” When we moved to Africa in 2013, the first thing I bought was a safari jacket/vest. This is an olive sleeveless vest loaded with multiple pockets. My safari jacket had sixteen pockets with both zippered and flap types. Most of the pockets were on the outside of …
Thoughts on Kindness Part 3
Kindness makes a man attractive. Proverbs 19:22 (The Living Bible) Kindness is a language anyone can understand. The opposite of kindness is rudeness. There is no room for rudeness if your heart is full of kindness. A tenet of good Southern Hospitality is to speak and act with kindness. “If you can be …
Thoughts on Kindness
Kindness It’s something the blind can see and the deaf can hear. It’s called kindness. It’s one of the best words in the English language. Kindness is a good word to contemplate today. “Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate.” -Albert Schweitzer One …
There is no greater legacy than honesty
Honesty “No legacy is as rich as honesty.” – Quote beside my maternal grandfather, Sid Plott’s photograph in “The Gusher”, Byrd High (Shreveport) School, Class of 1926 Honesty, like lying, is a habit. Develop the fundamental habit of being a truth-teller in every situation. When is the truth a lie? We talk about “little …
